“To be fitting, the target must be deserving of the hate. But that’s not all. Just because the target is deserving of hate, that doesn’t mean that the hate is fitting. To be fitting, it must be directed at the target for harm they inflicted due to their sinister character. The hatred must also be of the right magnitude.”
-Berit Brogaard.
A lesson in Spiritual wellness…
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When love fails.
It’s hard to be optimistic about the future without love, as we now understand. What I told you previously was not a fabrication. Love truly is the ultimate power, but it can fail. We could end up choosing to love the wrong people. And those people could repay our love by corrupting us. Or perhaps the target of your love never loved you in return. Love can turn into the darkest hatred, but sometimes, that isn’t a bad thing. In fact, most of this will be about how to use hatred the right way. I’ve never been a fan of woo woo garbage…
When we love another, it makes us dependent on them. When those we depend on turn against us, nowhere is safe. This is why love must be conditional. It’s a matter of survival.
The main function of hatred is to sever. It’s something you need to be able to do no matter how gentle you’d like to be. Perhaps you are shackled to a corruptor. Or perhaps the person you love has become a monster. There are times when hatred is indeed the right answer, but unlike love, hatred has limits you must keep in mind. For example, to hate someone enough to kill them is a symptom of psychosis and you may need to speak with a mental health professional.
Just like love, hatred can be difficult to put into words. Hatred is not the opposite of love. They are more like twin sisters. There are two types of hatred. First, there is “free hatred,” which is contempt-based. Free hatred, you can give out like candy. This hatred is mostly harmless and can even be funny at the right time. Free hatred lines up with the “resistance” trait mentioned during our manipulation briefing. But there are some clowns who try to stretch the limits of this type of hatred. Think trolls or pranksters.
Then you have “true hatred,” which will be the main focus of this briefing. The sort of hatred that can make changes. The kind of hatred you NEED sometimes. But only a spark. Like love, there’s a lot about hatred to break down, but let’s start with the warnings. Hatred, if not channeled correctly, can make you dangerously unstable. But what about those who are already crazy?
Fuck around and find out.
See, now there are three types of crazy according to the American psychiatric association. The types are separated into groups called clusters A, B, and C. Cluster A crazy people are the psychopaths and sociopaths of the world. Not all Cluster A types are a menace to society. Some highly functioning sociopaths are our current corporate leaders. Some gentle psychopaths are our favorite content creators. For better or worse, life is a video game to them. And you’re just another character. Dehumanizing comes naturally to them.
Cluster B is the dysfunctional type crazy. The ones who learned the wrong lessons in life. The narcissists of the world. There’s hope that these people can change, but the problem lies with how they were raised. It’s technically never too late for these types, but the older they become, the more stuck in their ways they get. Those who fit the cluster B type have normal functioning brains and maybe a few traumatic experiences. Mostly, it’s an issue of values with them. Unable to think outside of themselves, Cluster B types excel in bringing the worst out of us.
Cluster C type crazy makes up the traumatized. Often the victims of corruptors, they are the ones who were made crazy. They are the most dangerous to themselves. Think Stockholm syndrome or post-traumatic stress disorder. Cluster C types feel like they deserved the abuse they went through. They have lost the ability to think for themselves. Their ego has been thoroughly crushed, leaving a shell. It is a popular thought experiment that hatred is precisely the spark a Cluster C would need to recover. But this is a dangerous experiment. Outside of professional help, there is nothing much you can do but occasionally check in on them and hope that one day, the spirit will return.
Those who have any notable personality disorders are better off without the spark. They are the most likely to become hateful individuals. Being a hateful person is indistinguishable from being an evil person. Hatred has a way of making you self-righteous. More likely to dehumanize others. Self-righteous people are also weak to spiritual pressure. Such as insult or praise. Their weak self-esteem allows them to be easily manipulated.
Now, let’s talk about how NOT to channel hatred.
Hating the right way.
The first step to using the spark effectively is conquering our own sense of entitlement. Entitlement breeds jealousy and envy. Envy, in a way, is your subconscious trying to make a case for hatred. You’re looking (or perhaps hoping) for the rival to do something that might disgust, anger, or harm you. You will always be a step behind if you cannot dispel your sense of entitlement. You are not in your right mind if you are envying another’s journey.
Hatred, like love, is reached after experiencing a combination of specific negative emotions. Hatred has a much simpler combination than love. All it takes is anger, disgust, and insecurity. Disrespect is an easy way to ignite all of the unpleasant emotions at once. Respect is the same thing as safety. If you feel disrespected, it is likely you also feel unsafe. Being disrespectful isn’t cool. You are likely to be considered a clown, or even worse, a threat…
Scrub yourself of any dysfunctional teachings. Those who stand with you are to be seen as equals. Even if they are subordinate to you, the absence of dignity in your treatment will have those you trust turn against you. Parents, too, must remember how easy it can be to be oppressive and disrespectful. Most dysfunction comes from the parental models. When it comes to respect, some like to think it is earned. This is incorrect. Respect is given. It is privilege that must be earned.
Hating the wrong way.
Don’t be so rigid. Holding someone accountable isn’t the same as blaming. The act of blaming is an attack on someone’s character. Holding someone accountable is focusing on correcting the issue. The biggest risk of blaming others is the urge to make yourself morally superior. This makes you more likely to dehumanize the target.
Where dignity is the basic expression of love, pity is the basic expression of hatred. Pity is almost like blame, where you automatically place yourself above the target. Pity is self-righteousness. Pity is virtue signaling. It’s punchable… Disrespect… Even if the intent truly is to assist, if it’s perceived as pity, you are making an enemy. That’s the issue with forcing empathy too soon. Show sympathy, not pity.
Hatred usually begins with suffering. When we have been intentionally harmed, it is natural to want something to be done to the violator. However, anything past self-defense is where we take retaliation too far. Remember, justice is about restoring dignity to the victim, not taking dignity away from the violator. Revenge is not justice. Retaliation should be done out of love for yourself, not out of hatred for the other. Once you start taking pleasure in inflicting pain, you are cruel, which is one step closer to the chaotic mindset.
Losing yourself.
Hatred turns self-defense into assault and battery. Eventually, you become the bad guy. A hateful person is indistinguishable from an evil person. Once seen as evil, your freedom becomes limited. Once you take hatred too far, you are at the mercy of the justice system. To sever yourself from those who would harm you or otherwise drag you down. This is how to use the spark correctly. Retain your own dignity, and don’t allow yourself to get out of character. Once that happens, hatred controls you instead.
Laziness, smugness, and cruelty. Remember the chaotic trifecta. If you have even one of these traits within you, the more likely you are to become hateful. Hateful individuals are destined for imprisonment, harsh rehabilitation, or an early death. Don’t be stupid. Nothing unites people quite like a common enemy. Once you become hateful, you become that common enemy.
Haters and how to handle them.
Now, let’s speak of haters. Haters and hateful individuals are not quite the same. Hateful individuals cause suffering far and wide. A hater is simply the opposition. It’s you they hate for some reason. Perhaps it’s a personal grievance. Or maybe there’s just something particular about you that triggers a deep insecurity. No matter the motive, a hater’s goal is to weaken you spiritually. To afflict you. How do we resist hatred when we are the targets?
First off, make sure you aren’t giving the enemy any extra ammo. Some haters are hard to detect. You may think that person who wants to know all about your problem is on your side. But they could just be listening for something to destroy your reputation with while you’re away. It’s all about information. Your friends are those who learn with you. You are supposed to check for values that compliment your own during the vetting process.
Condescension is the tone of hatred. Watch for it in others and try your best not to do it yourself. When annoyed, it can be nigh impossible to resist. Never insult condescending people. They will almost always gaslight you for it. The goal is mortifying you. This, in turn, lifts the hater’s spirit. The best way to counter them is never lowering your head in their presence. If anything, intensify the eye contact during a discourse. Force them to talk too much. Capitalize on the mistake.
Another way someone could display hatred of you is publicly for everyone to see. Mortifying someone is done in private. Humiliating someone is much worse. You are basically forced to retaliate or retreat in this situation. Your reputation may have been damaged beyond repair. If self-defense is impossible, the only counter to this sort of attack is to get over yourself and move on.
Haters use shame as an offensive strategy. Any sort of emotional attack is meant to control your actions. If someone wanted you out of the game, shaming you is an excellent way to weaken the spirit and force mistakes. The goal of a hater is to make the target feel lesser. Once the target begins to dehumanize themselves, the hater has won. You have lost your way and may never see your full potential. You have become one of the lost. How disgraceful…
The effect of the spark.
In response to shame, we either wither into conformity or we explode with a hatred that could get out of hand easily. The amount of shame we feel depends on how many values have been infringed. What others think of you doesn’t affect you as much as what you think of yourself. The world may laugh at you for losing, but it’s the fact that you didn’t perform your best that truly bothers you. If you had no regrets, you wouldn’t care what anyone thought about a failure of yours.
The ultimate way to dull your hatred is to limit your number of regrets. If you are full of regret, the spark will tear you apart. But if you only have a few… The spark will burn them away. Hatred isn’t all that bad. The fear of hatred and shame keeps the worst of us from doing whatever they want. Hatred in a way is necessary for order. Even wicked people avoid being hated wherever possible.
Hatred has a way of making your enemies less intimidating. Once shamed, we grow hateful to protect ourselves. Despite the woo woo garbage floating around, hatred IS an acceptable response to someone who hates you. Their energy will no longer harm you. The bridge will burn twice as fast if both of you agree that it should be burned. Hatred can help you walk away without a care. Anger may get you riled up, but it’s hatred that gives you the strength to break your own chains.
Hatred sharpens you greatly in a short amount of time. However, it comes at the cost of weakening the spirit over a duration. Weak spirits are easy to manipulate. Though groups are essential for expanding ourselves, it is important to pay close attention to the types of groups you affiliate with. Mainly, the different types of hate groups and cults you see practically everywhere. Hate groups take advantage of your pain, fear, or confusion to feed you garbage rhetoric. This garbage is usually backed by some ridiculous study or by some twisting of the facts. They use outliers or fake stories as prime examples to polarize you into their way of thinking.
Misuse of the spark.
Once polarized, hate groups will eventually influence you to act in destructive ways. Either that, or they will extract from you until you start hating yourself. Hatred limits your choices considerably. It’s pretty common to land yourself in a bad situation. You may end up making a bad decision just because you hate the good one. Whatever negative trait you have is cultivated by hate groups. Once you believe the flawed logic, you may develop new negative traits. Hate groups specialize in twisting the facts. They take an undeniable truth and then rush your conclusion through subjective speech. Then, they use this garbage as an excuse to demonize others. Polarization is the signature move of the corruptor. Through a transitive argument, they make hatred a justified choice.
Some hate groups have their corruption process down to a science, and their views become topics of political discourse. Books that spread misinformation begin to circulate and become popular opinions. Garbage ideologies are born and are kept alive by the afflictions of their followers. Instead of bettering themselves, hate groups demand that others change. Hate groups are typically more interested in what’s going on outside of their group. Solutions are typically never given. Perhaps some sort of paid subscription to give you the “tools you need to survive in today’s climate.”
The most common hate groups to date that will warp your mind is anything that has to do with the battle of the sexes. The red pill, as well as modern feminism count as hate groups by criteria. No matter which side you are on, it shows your lack of focus, your sense of entitlement, it reveals pain you simply will not let go of, and it shows a lack of a real social circle. Common buzzwords you should listen for are patriarchy, the matrix, hypergamy, toxic masculinity, alpha/beta/sigma/ etc etc.
Because you all hate the same thing, it’s easy to believe that you are among comrades. This is not true. Having a similar frustration is just that. It is not a bond. It’s a temporary alliance at best. These people would become envious of you if you managed to fix your problems before them.
Racial hate groups such as white nationalists or black separatists express an unintelligent and primitive mindset. These are not the same as cultural advancement groups. Cultural advancement groups are focused on reaching the next step with others of familiar background. Cultural advancement groups prepare you for obstacles such as language barriers and teaching societal norms.
Racial hate groups, on the other hand, make you perceive you have more obstacles than you really do. The only way racial hate groups can make you feel pride in yourself is by making every other race seem lesser. Remember that self-righteousness is the height of delusion. Avoid racial hate groups at the cost of your mind.
The groups we affiliate with feed us buzzwords that infect the mind. Eliminate them from your speech in order to control your hatred. Listen for the buzzwords people use to better understand their character. This is how you identify someone who cannot think for themselves. It is likely that hatred has a firm grip on them. They are lost. Not good candidates to integrate into your team. Perhaps you can liberate them, but only if it’s worth the time.
Conclusion.
Hatred is a necessary evil. One of those things that makes the world fundamentally flawed. You need it to exceed where love fails, yet if untamed, it will be what ultimately destroys you. Before you use the spark, ask yourself if forgiveness is a possibility. You may very well be making a mistake. But if you do choose hatred, don’t let it lead you astray. The absence of love creates fear. To be a hateful individual is to live a life of fear. To sever yourself from those who would do you harm or who would otherwise drag you down. To free yourself. This is how a liberator is supposed to use the spark.
References and Photos
Hatred: Understanding Our most dangerous emotion – Berit Brogaard
Dragonball – Akira Toriyama
Batman – DC Comics
Ace Attorney – Capcom
Bully – Rockstar